Bride's 'tacky' wedding invite request leaves guests flabbergasted

26 February 2024 , 09:59

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The couple made a special request ahead of their big day (Image: Getty Images/Blend Images)

A bride and groom have come under fire after making an unusual request in their wedding invitations.

The couple reached out to all their guests ahead of their big day, and made a surprising plea - which did not go down well with all the invitees.

One took to a popular Facebook group 'That's it, I'm wedding shaming' to share details of the invite, writing: "No, no, no, no, no, and no" in the caption.

She shared a photo of the invitation, which stated that the couple did not expect any 'traditional gifts' - but instead wanted guests to transfer them $40 per adult and $20 per child when they RSVP'd.

The couple asked guests to transfer money over to cover the cost of their food

It read, in part: "In lieu of traditional gifts, we kindly request that you contribute towards the cost of our reception buffet. This will allow us to share a wonderful meal together and create lasting memories with our loved ones.

'I don't want children staying up late at weekends - I really need adult time'

"The cost per adult is $40, and for children under 12, it is $20. To facilitate the planning process, we kindly ask that you include your contribution to the meals when you RSVP. This will help us provide accurate numbers to our venue and ensure a seamless experience for everyone.

"Transfer the funds directly to our bank account at your earliest convenience. Kindly include your name and 'wedding buffet contribution' in the payment reference."

While the couple said that their guests' presence was the 'most meaningful gift [they] could ask for', people were still outraged that they were charging a 'fee' to attend the event.

One Facebook user wrote: "I couldn't imagine making people pay for food at a party I'm throwing. If you can't provide for your guests as a host, don't have a wedding. Elope somewhere or something!" as per the Daily Mail.

A second agreed: "If you can't afford a wedding, DON'T HAVE A WEDDING!", while a third asked: "Why are people obsessed with living beyond their means?" a fourth added: "Just say 'no gifts' and leave it at that. You don't charge people to attend your wedding."

But other people were far less critical. "Honestly, $40 is less than I would give as a gift, and to me this is very clear they don't want gifts - so it's a bargain!" one said.

Another person said: "It's a reasonable amount, I'm not mad about this at all." And a third added: "My sister had 40 people who RSVP'd not show up. That was 40 extra plates she paid for. I think this is reasonable too!"

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