Private Investigator shares sneaky trick to find out if your partner is cheating

29 September 2023 , 09:45

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Charlotte is a Private Investigator and catches unfaithful people (Image: Jam Press/Rick Notley/RIMANO/Taylor Investigations)

If you've ever been cheated on in the past, you'll know how horrific it is. That sinking feeling when you know there's something feeling a little bit off with the person you love isn't pleasant at all - but how can you know for sure that there's infidelity at play and you're not just being paranoid? Well, a private investigator has revealed the top signs that your partner is cheating on you.

Charlotte Notley, from Norwich, has spent years investigating suspicious activities, two-timing spouses, and secretive dalliances, and her controversial techniques have gathered popularity for her as she spots those who are being unfaithful - including a Satnav trick.

Charlotte has spent years investigating suspicious activities (Jam Press/Rick Notley/RIMANO/Taylor Investigations)

Charlotte's sneaky way to check that your partner has been where they've said they have been is by checking their past Satnav destinations. By doing this, you can put your mind at ease, as if they're going somewhere unusual, they'd need directions to reach the place. This way, you can do your own sleuthing before you pull out the big guns by hiring a Private Investigator.

Charlotte said that the "first indicator" that a partner is straying is "distance", telling people to trust their gut instinct. She explained: "Hiding their phone and unexplained times away without much of an explanation is another sign. Check for changes in their social media- new followers and friends. Check their browser history on shared devices.

"Make a surprise visit to your partner's work or usual place they should be. You know your partner the best, so if something feels off, then it probably is. Most clients who come to us know there is something not right and they usually are correct. Secretive behaviour is a key indicator for any relationship as trust must always be there. If you feel concerned, ask your partner to reassure you and your trust. If you are still not satisfied then trust your instinct."

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According to the World Population Review, approximately half of the people in married relationships cheat on their spouse. Gov.co.uk reported that between January and March this year, 28,865 divorce applications were registered.

Charlotte recommended hiring a professional if you've tried to get to the bottom of the issue, but are struggling. "If you have exhausted all avenues to get to the truth yourself then it is best to hire a professional. Private Investigators cannot go through someone's phone or breach any UK GDPR laws, therefore it is only for the case of if your partner is physically spending time with someone else that a PI can help but ensure the cost is always worth the reward.

Charlotte recommended hiring a professional if you've tried to get to the bottom of the issue (Jam Press/Rick Notley/RIMANO/Taylor Investigations)

"Having evidence of your partner cheating will not assist in any divorce or legal proceedings but it will give you peace of mind one way or another."

However, sometimes surveillance efforts are wasted on people who have done nothing wrong, as Charlotte told of a time there was a woman "adamant her husband was cheating on her." But it was a lot more innocent than it seemed, as he was "spending time in a restaurant car park with a coffee and a book." "He was being dishonest about it but he certainly wasn't having an affair", Charlotte shared.

Danielle Kate Wroe