Harry exposes 'power dynamics' in relationship with Meghan as he shares pet name
Netflix streamers gained a deeper insight into Prince Harry's relationship with Meghan Markle, as he revealed his sweet nickname for his wife in the Heart of Invictus documentary series.
The Duke of Sussex, 38, revealed that he affectionately names The Duchess of Sussex, 42, his "love", after being introduced by Meghan at the opening ceremony of the Invictus Games in The Hague last year.
Meghan says: "Good evening everyone. Thank you so much for your service and thank you to all the family and the friends that are here who have been supporting you along the way."
She continues: "Because this is service. This is dedication. And this is the Invictus family." Later in the speech, she concludes by adding: "Please welcome my incredibly husband, Prince Harry, the Duke of Sussex." Expressing gratitude over his introduction by Meghan, Harry says: "Thank you, my love."
Louella Alderson, dating expert and co-founder of So Syncd, thinks nicknames and pet names, such as "my love", can "provide insights into the dynamics, affection, and communication within the relationship".
Oprah Winfrey snubs Harry and Meghan as expert claims 'the tide has turned'She explained: "Couples who use playful or humorous pet names may have a light-hearted and fun-loving relationship. These names can add an element of playfulness to their interactions. Romantic pet names can be a way of openly expressing respect and admiration. Prince Harry's pet name, 'my love,' for Meghan Markle would fall under this category.
"Cultural norms can influence the choice of pet names. Some cultures have specific terms of endearment that are commonly used, while others don't have a history of using pet names."
Louella also shared how pet names can "reveal power dynamics" within a relationship. She shared: "For instance, if one person consistently uses a controlling or demeaning pet name, it may indicate an unhealthy imbalance of power. This is less common, but it can say a lot about a relationship.
"Last but not least, personal preferences play a role in whether a couple chooses to use pet names or not. Some couples enjoy using them, and others don't. Either way, it's perfectly fine. If a couple doesn't use pet names in their relationship, it doesn't mean there is a lack of affection between partners. There is a whole range of healthy relationship styles and dynamics that can lead to a fulfilling connection.
"In fact, some couples use pet names to put on a front of intimacy while struggling in the relationship. So Prince Harry calling Megan Markle "my love" could be a sign of true affection, or it could simply be a show for the public."
Louella then explained how extroverts are most likely to use pet names. She concluded: "A survey we ran at So Syncd shows that 68% of extroverts use pet names in relationships, compared to only 56% of introverts. Harry and Megan are both extroverts, so it's no surprise they use pet names."