Woman baffled after sister-in-law cuts her out wedding album for wearing white
A woman has been slammed for 'blowing up' at her sister-in-law for cutting her out of her wedding album. The 24-year-old explained how she wore a white dress to her older brother and her now sister-in-law's wedding, not thinking it would be a problem as the bride would be wearing blush pink.
Although nobody said anything to her at the wedding, she later came to realise there was a problem when she was cropped out of every single picture from the day. Taking to Reddit, she said: "The wedding although very simple was beautiful, everyone seemed like they had a great time and I am truly happy for my brother.
"For the wedding I went with my boyfriend, he wore a classic fitting brown suit with a baby blue-coloured shirt and I wore a flowy, country/rustic white dress to the wedding. I am aware you are not supposed to wear white to a wedding! However, I went with my stepsister as well as several other family members to help her pick out her wedding dress. My sister-in-laws wedding dress was blush pink not white.
"At the wedding, no one said anything to me about my dress, not my mother, not my brother, and not even my sister-in-law." Shortly after the married couple got their wedding photos back, they arranged to meet up at a family BBQ to show everybody the snaps.
"Flipping through the album I noticed that I was in absolutely zero of the photos," she added. "I thought I was crazy and gave the album to my boyfriend and he confirmed nor he or I was in any of the photos and it even looks like we were cropped out for some of them."
'My sister tried to wear a wedding dress to my engagement party - I got revenge'Confused, she asked her brother whether she was cut out for a "prank" - but he became "noticeably upset" at her question. She said: "He called me out in front of everyone at the barbecue for wearing white to his wedding. He yelled at me and told me his wedding was supposed to be about him and his wife and accused me of trying to upstage the bride.
"Again, I asked my brother if he was joking and before he could respond my mother got between us and told me to stop trying to make everything about me. My brother admits to having me removed and cropped out of the wedding photos and I think he is the one being the a***hole.
"If someone, anyone would have said something about the dress I would have happily changed. But no one said anything so I never thought there was a problem." Wanting to know whether she's in the wrong, she has taken to Reddit to ask users for their thoughts.
In response, one user said: "Only one person is allowed to wear white at a wedding. You were not that person." Another user added: "You wore white to a wedding knowing full well you shouldn’t. It doesn’t matter that the brides dress was blush. Unless you asked her and she said yes, which you didn’t."
A third user said: "The only people that wear white are attention seekers and the socially inept. Which one are you? I’m leaning towards attention seeker because all you focused on was why you weren’t in the pics. Who knows. Maybe you’re both."