'My 34KK breasts were crushing me and men constantly stared - now I am free'

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Kaeleen was scared to go out in public before getting a breast reduction (Image: Jam Press/@kaeemae)
Kaeleen was scared to go out in public before getting a breast reduction (Image: Jam Press/@kaeemae)

A woman with 34KK breasts that were 'crushing' her body finally feels 'free' after undergoing surgery to drop a whopping six cup sizes.

Kaeleen Stammers says her life has completely changed after going under the knife, as men no longer stare at her constantly while walking down the street.

She feels liberated as the breast reduction has not only lifted a weight off her chest, it has given her the confidence to finally be her true self, as she no longer feels 'trapped in her own body' or in constant pain.

The 24-year-old woman from London spent £7,800 on surgery to take her breasts from 34KK to 34F and says the transformation has been worth every penny as she is overjoyed with her new look.

'My 34KK breasts were crushing me and men constantly stared - now I am free' eiqrrirdiqezinvThe 24-year-old spent £7,800 on surgery (Jam Press/@kaeemae)
'My 34KK breasts were crushing me and men constantly stared - now I am free'Men would constantly stare at her chest and tut at her as she walked by (Jam Press/@kaeemae)

For Kaeleen, the breast reduction wasn't just about her appearance as her large boobs were a serious hindrance on day-to-day life.

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Opening up about her experience of constant fatigue and pain, she said: "Having big breasts was a daily struggle, there wasn't one moment of relief. My tight bras would dig into my shoulders, rib cage, and sides, sometimes cutting my skin and always marking it terribly.

"I had to sleep with two sports bras just to be semi-comfortable but I was always under the crushing weight of my breasts."

Alongside constant discomfort, Kaeleen had to face members of the public staring at her large chest every time she left the house, which became exhausting.

"Before the surgery, men would stare all day, every day, and on occasion tut because they thought I had gotten ridiculous implants," she explained.

"Women also gave me dirty looks and clutched their partner's hand and searched their eyes to make sure they weren't looking at me.

"I started wearing baggy clothes so I wouldn’t make them feel insecure or welcome a male gaze."

'My 34KK breasts were crushing me and men constantly stared - now I am free'Kaeleen was in constant pain and discomfort with her large breasts (Jam Press Vid/@kaeemae)
'My 34KK breasts were crushing me and men constantly stared - now I am free'She says her breast reduction has changed her life (Jam Press/@kaeemae)

Desperate to make a change, Kaeleen started exploring her options for surgery - not realising just how much the transformation would improve her life.

The 24-year-old was unable to get her operation funded through the NHS due to her BMI, so she opted to go private, booking in her surgery with Dr Lyndsey Highton in June 2022.

"Doctors removed 2.6kg of breast tissue and fat and it wasn't until afterward that I realised I was able to breathe properly and expand my lungs for what felt like the first time ever," Kaeleen revealed.

While the surgery was truly transformative for Kaeleen, recovery wasn't easy as she had to spend two weeks bed-bound and in pain. Luckily, her dad, Steph Briggs, and best friend, Ranvia Johal were by her side to look after her.

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She added: "My experience was absolutely wonderful but very emotional. My doctor did a fantastic job, and the hospital staff and aftercare were fantastic.

"I remember being so terrified that I would open my wounds and feeling so weak I didn't believe I could leave the hospital the next day but the staff looked after me until I was released.

"The first weeks were very, very painful and I had to understand how morphine worked, as well as figure out what dosage was right for me. It was also frustrating not being able to do anything for myself.

'My 34KK breasts were crushing me and men constantly stared - now I am free'She has gone down six cup sizes post-op (Jam Press/@kaeemae)
'My 34KK breasts were crushing me and men constantly stared - now I am free'Now she's looking forward to starting the gym again (Jam Press/@kaeemae)

"My dad waited on me hand and foot, bringing me meals that my mum cooked, adjusting my pillows, and watching over me. He barely slept."

Now fully recovered, Kaeleen is excited to lap up all the experiences that she'd previously shied away from due to her large chest.

She said: "Before the surgery, I would dread any social events, especially during summer because I would be swelteringly hot, my inner arms getting shredded by my side boob and scratchy bra.

"Now I feel completely and entirely free to express myself through fashion each day, I'm always excited to try new clothing and see how it falls on my new figure.

"I'm also free to exercise at long last, so I've been heavily into pilates and yoga [for the past few months], and I'm hoping to start my passion for netball again sometime this year.

'My 34KK breasts were crushing me and men constantly stared - now I am free'Kaeleen urges anyone considering breast reduction surgery to not wait too long (Jam Press/@kaeemae)

"I feel like I have a new lease on life and don't have to second-guess my hopes, dreams, desires, and capability of doing mundane things."

In a bid to help others in a similar situation, the 24-year-old has recently taken to TikTok to share her own journey and urged anyone wanting a reduction to 'not wait too long'.

"It will be the best decision you have ever made, join breast reduction communities on Facebook and other places to understand more about the tops and tricks to healing well.

"But every person I've seen wished they'd done it years before, in their prime years.

"Your body will look, feel and change drastically after the operation but go with the flow and the process!"

Ellie Fry

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