'Doctors said my toddler was fine – then said her body was riddled with tumours'

10 July 2023 , 14:28
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Tiffany McConathy, a certified nurse practitioner specialising in advanced oncology, discovered that her ten-month-old daughter, Nora, had tumours throughout her body (Image: Jam Press/@princessnoraswarriorfoundation)
Tiffany McConathy, a certified nurse practitioner specialising in advanced oncology, discovered that her ten-month-old daughter, Nora, had tumours throughout her body (Image: Jam Press/@princessnoraswarriorfoundation)

A mother has been left heartbroken after learning that her daughter's body is riddled with tumours.

Tiffany McConathy, a certified nurse practitioner specialising in advanced oncology, became concerned when her 10-month-old daughter, Nora, started experiencing weakened muscles on the right side of her face.

Initially diagnosed with Bell's palsy, a typically temporary condition, Tiffany had a persistent intuition that something more serious was afflicting her daughter. Despite initial reluctance from doctors, she insisted on further testing, specifically requesting an MRI.

To her worst fears, the MRI revealed tumours scattered throughout Nora's body.The devastating news shattered Tiffany's hopes for her daughter's future and left her grappling with the reality of a terminal illness.

Tiffany, from Arkansas, US, who is also mum to five-year-old Zane said: “I felt Bell’s palsy wasn’t the right diagnosis and pushed for an MRI.

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'Doctors said my toddler was fine – then said her body was riddled with tumours'Despite initial dismissal by doctors who diagnosed Nora with Bell's palsy (Jam Press/@princessnoraswarriorfoundation)
'Doctors said my toddler was fine – then said her body was riddled with tumours'Tiffany persisted and requested an MRI, which revealed the presence of tumours (Jam Press/@princessnoraswarriorfoundation)

“But the doctors were certain her symptoms would resolve on their own. I am sure they had their reasons for not wanting to do an MRI at first, but when taking all the clinical pieces and analysing them myself, something just didn’t feel right.

”After they told me about her tumours, I was completely shocked. Being in the line of work I am, I was also devastated.

“I knew what the odds were and they were not good, I knew there was a huge likelihood she wouldn’t make it.

“I decided I was going to spend every moment with her to the fullest and give her the best days that I could.”

'Doctors said my toddler was fine – then said her body was riddled with tumours'Nora underwent treatment, including intensive chemotherapy and a stem cell transplant (Jam Press/@princessnoraswarriorfoundation)

Tiffany first noticed her daughter suffering from facial weakness in September 2021, with her and her husband, Jeremy, 35, immediately rushed, then one-year-old, Nora, to the hospital.

Following an assessment with a neurologist, she was diagnosed with Bell’s palsy and the family was later sent home.

But six weeks later, the little girl became extremely lethargic, refusing to eat and acting strangely – causing Tiffany to take her back to the hospital.

'Doctors said my toddler was fine – then said her body was riddled with tumours'She sadly passed away in February 2022 (Jam Press/@princessnoraswarriorfoundation)

On 3 November, Nora underwent a biopsy, showing she had embryonal tumours with multilayer rosettes, an aggressive brain tumour affecting children under three.

Treatment began on 15 November with a port and gastric tube, three rounds of intensive chemotherapy, and a shunt due to the increased pressure on her brain due to the fluid.

She was scheduled in for a stem cell transplant but unfortunately developed asymptomatic Covid, causing the transplant to be delayed.

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Tragically, months later on 19 February 2022, the little girl passed away.

'Doctors said my toddler was fine – then said her body was riddled with tumours'In memory of Nora, Tiffany and her husband Jeremy started a non-profit foundation called Princess Nora's Warriors (Jam Press/@princessnoraswarriorfoundation)
'Doctors said my toddler was fine – then said her body was riddled with tumours'The aim is to raise funds and awareness for paediatric cancer research (Jam Press/@princessnoraswarriorfoundation)

Tiffany said: “I can literally replay moment by moment her last day and a half. At 12.36 am, her heart rate started to fall.

“12.38 am – that’s the time part of my heart died. She was the sweetest, most sassy, beautiful child.

“There were a plethora of emotions. I was relieved for her that she no longer had to suffer and ran into the arms of Jesus.

“I was numb, because how was I supposed to go on without a part of my heart? I was confused, how did this happen... Why was it so quick? What could I have done to prevent this?

“I have had to learn it is ok to have more than one emotion at a time. I spend most of my days happy but grieving, and that’s okay.”

In a bid to help other children suffering from rare cancers, Tiffany and Jeremy decided to have a research autopsy performed on Nora.

Unfortunately, this request was denied due to her positive Covid test.

She said: “The most unfortunate part about her death was that my husband and I wanted to research autopsy to allow for tissue sampling.

“Unfortunately, the hospital would not do her autopsy due to her COVID positivity.

“We wanted other babies to live.”

'Doctors said my toddler was fine – then said her body was riddled with tumours'The couple hope the charity will provide financial assistance to families going through the hardships of paediatric cancer (Jam Press/@princessnoraswarriorfoundation)
'Doctors said my toddler was fine – then said her body was riddled with tumours'Princess Nora's Warriors aims to raise funds and awareness for paediatric cancer (Jam Press/@princessnoraswarriorfoundation)

The couple started a non-profit foundation called Princess Nora’s Warriors, raising money and awareness for paediatric cancer research. To date, they have raised £175,000 ($223,000).

She said: “One thing I have found since having a daughter diagnosed with cancer is the severe lack of funding for research in children.

“I hope to continue to raise money for research, as well as helping families financially, going through the hardest time of their lives.

“We hope to someday see a cure for paediatric cancers!”

Arkansas Children's Hospital, where Nora was treated, was approached for comment, but they are yet to respond.

Lucy Williamson

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