'Bridezilla' shouts at pregnant sister for 'ruining fun' by not drinking at hen

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The hen-party went horribly for the bride
The hen-party went horribly for the bride's brother's wife (Stock Image) (Image: Getty Images)

A pregnant woman was left completely dismayed when her future sister-in-law slated her for 'ruining her fun' when she didn't drink at her hen do.

The future mum's obvious decision to avoid alcohol during the boozy do left the 'bridezilla' seething, and the spat left a huge rift between the pair - and the bride's brother.

He is stunned that his sister would treat his partner this way, and argues that there's no excuse for her behaviour - wedding or no wedding.

The brother, who was due to walk his sister down the aisle, took to Reddit's 'Am I the a**hole' forum to reveal that she treated his wife terribly, even 'removing her as one of the bridesmaids'.

'Bridezilla' shouts at pregnant sister for 'ruining fun' by not drinking at hen qhiddxiqxtidqinvThe bride-to-be tried to force the woman to drink alcohol, even though she was pregnant (Getty Images/Westend61)

He wrote: "My father passed away when I (m26) was 22 and my sister (f29) was 25. With this in mind, my sister, after getting engaged, asked me if I would do the honor of walking her down the aisle. At first, I was elated and so I enthusiastically agreed. Then things quickly changed after my sister realized that my wife was pregnant.

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"In the proceeding months, my sister made my wife's life hell (who initially had been one of her bridesmaids, but was relatively recently informed that she will not be one). Originally it was fine but as my wife's pregnancy became visible, my sister would at times taunt her and make rude comments towards her.

"During her bachelorette party (just a few days ago), she even yelled at her because she was ruining her fun by being too distracting and 'not-drinking' (I kid you not). The ensuing onslaught resulted in my wife being removed as one of her bridesmaids. She even left my PREGNANT wife on the side of the road as my sister made her way to a party planned, in part, by my wife and in a limousine paid for by me.

"This coupled with the fact that she had asked me recently to ask my wife to stay at home, 'because her pregnancy will take attention away from her on her special day', just broke me.

"I called her up yesterday after I found out what she said to my wife, and I told her that I will not be attending the wedding and that she will have to find someone else to walk her down the aisle."

After this admission, things got a whole lot worse, with his sister resorting to name-calling.

"That's when the calls began. Everyone has been calling me, telling me that I am overreacting and that I am intentionally trying to sabotage her wedding. She even called to yell at me and told me she had always hated 'that b****' while referring to my wife. I told her to f*** off of course.

"My mother has been extremely sympathetic towards my wife and she agrees with me. My wife has been crying over this and she has received an onslaught of messages.

"I blocked all my relatives (except my mother) and am planning a trip to Disneyland for my wife and me on the day of my sister's wedding (as I already booked the days off from work and Disney is where my wife and I went on our first date, when we lived in LA). This news has started its own onslaught. Nevertheless, am I the a**hole?"

People praised the man in the comments for sticking up for his wife and standing up to his sister's bad behaviour.

One wrote: "Good for him. I'd also go no contact with the bridezilla."

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Another said: "Your sister sounds deranged. To verbally attack your pregnant wife like that? Why? Because she is taking away attention from her? Or is it some other petty reason? Go no contact with the crazies. Enjoy your trip to Disneyland!"

"SO F****** PROUD OF YOU. Blood is not thicker than water if that blood is egoistical as f***", someone praised.

People even called the mum a 'real one' for taking the sider of her son's wife, rather than automatically agreeing with her daughter.

What would you do in this situation? Let us know in the comments.

Danielle Kate Wroe

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