'My fiancée humiliated me then ghosted me for months - now she wants me back'
After months of radio silence, he didn't know what to do.
There are all sorts of reasons why a relationship might break down, but for one man some of the things that initially attracted him to his partner also ended up being factors that pulled them apart. The couple met when he was hired to work as a videographer for his soon-to-be girlfriend's Only Fans account, and quickly the attraction between the pair blossomed into a relationship that saw them become totally joined at the hip.
The man admitted, however, that the pair enjoyed a relationship that was pretty "fiery, with lots of arguing" and that his attractive partner had always received a lot of attention from other men - and on one night these two factors combined and saw them have one hell of a bust-up.
The man, who wrote into Dear Deidre - The Sun's agony aunt - explained that he moved in not long after and then proposed to her on her birthday. However, on the night that things broke down between them, they had been attending a Christmas party together.
He explained that as they socialised he noticed his partner having a particular conversation that caused him to see red. "We were surrounded by stunning influencers. When she started flirting with a good-looking guy, I saw red. I told her to talk to me outside but she refused and we ended up yelling across the kitchen.
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"She stormed out and the guy followed her. When I went on to the balcony all I could see was his car disappearing down the road. I moved my stuff out of her flat and didn't hear from her for months."
After a long time passed, she got back in touch with the man over text message and asked him if he would be willing to meet up with her. Not only that, but she also asked for confirmation about whether they were going forward with their planned nuptials, something that seemed out of the blue after there had only been radio silence for so long - leaving the man confused about what to do next, torn between whether to get back together with his ex, or leave it in the past and reject her advances.
The agony aunt replied that as things stood, the pair couldn't reconcile without seriously changing their habits when it came to how they relate to one another. "Having a fiery relationship may feel exciting but it is based on drama and instability. If you both want to make your relationship work you're going to need to improve your communication.
"Rather than trying to control her, you need to be able to explain your feelings and she needs to take your emotions into consideration without running off."
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