Queen's nanny who lost her position and respect after spilling all in America

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The Queen's nanny's actions were seen as a betrayal (Image: POOL/AFP via Getty Images)

The Royal Family isn't as mysterious as it was in previous years, owing to the huge number of accounts from former royal staff about what goes on behind palace walls.

While many accounts about what the royals enjoy doing in their spare time or what they like to eat are not shocking in 2023, the first private revelations that came out in a US publication from a former nanny were met with huge backlash from the palace.

A number of former members of royal staff have managed to cause controversy over the years - whether that is through interviews or releasing books - but if there was someone who started the trend it would be Marion Crawford.

The Scottish educator and governess worked for the Royal Family for many years but had previously worked for Lord Elgin before transferring to the household of The Duke and Duchess of York (later King George VI and Queen Elizabeth).

Queen's nanny who lost her position and respect after spilling all in America eiqrtiqtdiruinvThe Queen's former nanny, Marion Crawford, left her grace and favour home in Kensington Palace after the scandal (Bettmann Archive)

Marion - known as 'Crawfie' at work - was incredibly close with Princess Elizabeth and Princess Margaret and acted as their governess from when they were small until her retirement in 1948.

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When she left her role, she was allowed to live at Nottingham Cottage - a grace and favour home in the grounds of Kensington Palace. Queen Mary even showed her gratitude by having it decorated with antique furniture and flower prints.

In the same year, American publishers approached the Palace and the Government and asked for stories following the wedding of Princess Elizabeth and Prince Philip that could be written about in the US.

While the Palace initially declined, the Government were keen on the idea and suggested the recently retired Marion as a source.

Queen's nanny who lost her position and respect after spilling all in AmericaMarion Crawford (R) was a royal nanny for many years (2015 Getty Images)

Queen Elizabeth (later The Queen Mother) heard of this and wrote to Marion.

She said: "I do feel, most definitely, that you should not write and sign articles about the children, as people in positions of confidence with us must be utterly oyster.

"If you, the moment you finished teaching Margaret, started writing about her and Lilibet, well, we should never feel confidence in anyone again."

Queen's nanny who lost her position and respect after spilling all in AmericaMarion's comments were printed in an edition of the Ladies Home Journal (Getty)
Queen's nanny who lost her position and respect after spilling all in AmericaMarion Crawford moved away from the palace in 1950 (Getty)

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In 1949, a manuscript was sent to the Palace for approval and the Queen Mother is said to have written back: "The governess has gone off her head".

While certain passages were removed at the Queen's request, the unauthorised work was published in Woman's Own in the UK and in the Ladies' Home Journal in the United States.

Marion did not know anything was wrong or that she had caused upset until Christmas of that year when she did not receive a card from the Palace.

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In 1950, she left her home in London and bought a home near to Balmoral Castle in Scotland. Even though she frequently saw them drive past, they never came to see her.

Many courtiers believed that Marion's husband had coerced her into making money off of her royal connections. When he died in 1977, Marion is said to have fallen into a deep depression and attempted suicide. Her note read: "The world has passed me by and I can't bear those I love to pass me by on the road."

Marion Crawford died in Aberdeen in 1988 and no member of The Royal Family attended her funeral or sent a wreath.

Rebecca Russell

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