Cancer mum hits back at cruel trolls who mocked her looks

04 June 2023 , 13:03
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Danni modelling for oneractive - she has hit back at trolls commenting on her photos (Image: mediadrumimages/@the_boob_battle)
Danni modelling for oneractive - she has hit back at trolls commenting on her photos (Image: mediadrumimages/@the_boob_battle)

A mum of two has revealed how evil trolls mocked her for sharing pictures of her double mastectomy after her cancer was left undiagnosed due to covid restrictions.

Nail artist Danni Moore, 32, bravely shared photos showing how she had lost her hair and breasts to the disease on social media.

She underwent a gruelling battle with cancer which saw her endure 13 rounds of chemotherapy, 15 rounds of radiotherapy, and 18 hormone therapy injections after the COVID pandemic caused her breast cancer to remain undiagnosed for a year.

She also underwent an elected double mastectomy.

Danni has shared pictures of her journey with her 21K Instagram followers and 35K Facebook followers, fearlessly showing off her scars.

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Cancer mum hits back at cruel trolls who mocked her looksDanni celebrating at Christmas (mediadrumimages/@the_boob_battle)

She has also worked as a model in professional photoshoots to raise awareness of breast cancer - including for the body-positive underwear brand Lounge, Oneractive, and Dorothy Perkins.

Danni’s story has inspired many and she has a community of faithful supporters on social media but she says there have also been hateful comments made about her body from foul online trolls.

“I’ve had hurtful comments online about the way I look,” Danni said.

“I’ve been called a boy and told I should keep some myself away from social media.

“On a bad day, these are quite hurtful. Especially when social media is full of airbrushed perfect-looking models.

“But generally I’m positive: this is me and I’m just glad to be alive.”

Cancer mum hits back at cruel trolls who mocked her looksDanni during her treatment (mediadrumimages/@the_boob_battle)

Danni lives in Bristol with her two children, Betsy, 5, and Dexter, 3, and her partner, Highways England Procurement Manager Ant Harris, 40. She has modelled for various brands to celebrate different bodies.

“I was approached through my boob battle Instagram page to model for Lounge, Oneractive, and breast cancer now, Dororthy Perkins’ range,” Danni said.

“It’s hard because I was the only one on all the shoots with a flat chest.

“You look and feel different but I felt it was so important to show this side of what cancer can leave behind."

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“I live with these scars every day as a reminder of what happened but how far I’ve come.

“My body is different. I’ve lost a part of me that many would say makes us feminine. It’s hard.

“But I hope by showing my scars and skin will help others feel more body confident whilst also reminding everyone to check themselves regularly.”

Cancer mum hits back at cruel trolls who mocked her looksDanni and her daughter, Betsy (mediadrumimages/@the_boob_battle)

Danni has now finished all active treatment and hormone therapy, but her journey to remission has been extremely difficult.

“I noticed a lump in my chest around the summer of 2020 when I was breastfeeding Dexter,” Danni said.

“I thought it was blocked milk or a cyst.

“It grew bigger and looked like a bruise which made me book a GP appointment. They reassured me it was likely nothing, but referred me anyway.

“I ended up missing the referral appointment due to Covid and when I went to rebook it, I needed to go back through the GP.

“Because I thought it was nothing serious I didn’t rush to do this.

“Never did I think: cancer."

Cancer mum hits back at cruel trolls who mocked her looksDanni shows her scars after a double mastectomy (mediadrumimages/@the_boob_battle)

“By June time, it has grown bigger so I called the GP and they asked me to feel my armpit and I could feel a teeny tiny lump.

“They referred me, I got an appointment a few weeks later and then was diagnosed with stage 3 HER2+ breast cancer on the 1st of July 2021.

“I had some bad reactions to chemotherapy and also was only offered a single mastectomy.

“I had to fight hard for more chemotherapy and for a double mastectomy and I’m so glad I did and was able to be a part of the decision-making for what I and my body were going to look like.”

Cancer mum hits back at cruel trolls who mocked her looksDanni bravely showing off her scars (mediadrumimages/@the_boob_battle)

Thankfully, Danni had an excellent support system.

“I’ve had an incredible family and friend network,” she said.

“I couldn’t have managed without them all.

“They cooked, cleaned, wiped me up after a sickness episode, sent texts of support, offered childcare. They are an unbelievable army.

“I’m also lucky to be surrounded by people now who don’t make cancer a thing. I’m just Danni. Boobs or no boobs, hair or no hair. They just see me for me.

“I ended up leaving a ten-year relationship as cancer taught me that life is too short to be unhappy.

“I am now the happiest I have ever been with an incredible guy which I met through my boob battle blog.”

Danni is also determined to continue to fight for body positivity.

Cancer mum hits back at cruel trolls who mocked her looksDanni's MRI (mediadrumimages/@the_boob_battle)

“Mentally it’s been tough to deal with my physical appearance changing,” she said.

“I want to try and publish my blog into a book and have it in hospitals and schools. It’s so important to normalise different bodies but also to educate people.

“Cancer isn’t nice, it drags you through the worst darkest days but I hope people can see that I am living proof that there is life after the bad times.

“I’ve never been happier and I’m literally living my fairy tale now and I don’t need long hair or boobs to do that.”

Molly Pennington

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