'Outraged' woman who fled abusive relationship denied IVF because she's single

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Anne-Marie Morrison said she was denied IVF treatment (Image: Anne-Marie Morrison)
Anne-Marie Morrison said she was denied IVF treatment (Image: Anne-Marie Morrison)

A distraught woman has been denied IVF after escaping from an abusive relationship.

Anne-Marie Morrison, 36, from Dunbar, Scotland, says she was denied IVF treatment because she is single.

After fleeing her relationship she had her NHS support removed before funding trips to a sperm bank herself that ultimately ended in disappointment.

She is now campaigning to allow single woman access to fertility clinics to become pregnant without a partner.

Current legislation does not allow single woman entry to publicly run IVF clinics.

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She said: "I am absolutely outraged, I can’t believe it and I am deeply hurt. For someone to squash your dreams when they don’t even listen to you and don’t even know who I am.

'Outraged' woman who fled abusive relationship denied IVF because she's singleAnne-Marie said she was refused IVF because she was single (Anne-Marie Morrison)

Before women can be referred for treatment, they need to be in a relationship for at least three years.

Anne-Marie, studying psychology and counselling, has been battling with the government for years to fulfil her dream of becoming a parent and launched a petition in the hope fellow single women can become mothers.

"They don’t know these millions of other women and they don’t know what we’ve been through. I am always giving gratitude for my life and everything that surrounds us", she told Edinburgh Live.

"It’s beautiful and I could provide that to someone else. It means everything to me to bring someone into the world that is stunning and experience it with me."

Anne-Marie, a practising Christian, started her baby journey 10 years ago.

She was previously offered IVF on the NHS but had the offer rescinded when she ended the abusive relationship.

Anne-Marie was left to fork out her own money to go to a private sperm bank twice - but both attempts failed.

She argues that being forced to be in a relationship “is against her choice” and is “ludicrous.”

She said: “I am able to have relationships, I’ve had them but it’s not what I want for my life, I’m not saying that I wouldn’t have a relationship but all I want in this life is a baby.

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“I just haven’t met anyone that I can trust enough at the moment to bring into a baby’s life. I am putting mine and their safety first before anyone else.

“I was with someone who was horrible to me and beating me. I went through women's aid and left this person a long, long time ago and grew these protective skills to know where to spot them if I am ever with someone like that again.

“You deserve the highest level of treatment and I haven’t found that and that’s why I haven’t settled down with someone.”

Anne’s petition has received over 400 signatures but needs 10,000 for it to be considered by the Scottish Government.

A Scottish Government spokesperson said: “While legislation, licensing and regulation of IVF is reserved, delivery is managed by the Scottish Government. We have invested around £40 million over five years to improve IVF waiting times and meet expanded NHS access criteria."

A UK Government Department of Health and Social Care spokesperson for local health services for fertility must follow National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) guidelines.

They added: "As guidelines cover diagnosing and treating fertility problems, they do not cover IVF treatment for single women who do not have a diagnosed fertility problem.

"NICE is currently reviewing its fertility guidelines and will consider whether the current recommendations for access to NHS-funded treatment are still appropriate. We expect that this review will be published in 2024.”

Steven Brown

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