'Girlfriend invited 10 guys to join her in hot tub - I class this as cheating'
A man was left outraged after his girlfriend invited 10 men to join her in a hot tub when holidaying with her friends. He explained how his girlfriend hired a small boat with a hot tub at the back while abroad with two female friends - one single and the other in a relationship - and they bumped into a group of men on the lake.
Wanting to make friends, the women invited them to join them in their hot tub - and all 10 men jumped onto their boat happy for the invite. However, this didn't go down well with her boyfriend - who claims she "cheated" on him for allowing the 10 men to lounge with her in the hot tub while she was wearing a bikini.
He said: "I woke up at around 11 pm of her sending me a picture of her day, her in this boat bath with 10 other guys and one of her friends. I asked who the guys were, and she explained. I didn’t react well, hung up, and a fight ensued over text."
Just one week later, after thinking about what she'd done, the couple broke up - but now he is wondering whether his reaction was "too harsh". He added: "Was I the a***hole? Is this just normal and am I being possessive? I can’t see myself seeing a bunch of girls in bikinis and feeling comfortable just waving them over if I have a girlfriend, I feel like that’s cheating."
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In response, one user said: "If I waved a bunch of broads over to party with me without my girlfriend, then sent her pics of my day. She would drown me in the bathtub when I got home."
Another user added: "If she sent you a photo she clearly didn't think she was doing anything wrong. If she hid it and you found out another way it would be more suspicious. She wasn't even necessarily the one who invited them over either.
"If I was on a trip and my friends asked some people to join I wouldn't want to be the person to say don't invite them over bc I have a partner. Personally, I think you overeacted, but clearly you couldn't cope with how outgoing she was so it's good you're not with her anymore. You need to be secure in your relationship."
A third user said: "She was with her girlfriends, some of them were single and she herself didn’t cheat, she shared the details with you in an open and honest way. It is indeed just a different level of communication needs."
One more user added: "It’s just basic common sense. Don’t slash your partner’s brake lines. Don’t use toilet water to make her coffee. Don’t invite strange men to a clearly suggestive setting. If a girl legitimately doesn’t seem to grasp this concept, then she has the emotional maturity of a turnip, and was likely raised by terrible female role models."
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