'I married my teacher with 25-year age gap - people say we're mum and daughter'

27 September 2023 , 00:37

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'I married my teacher with 25-year age gap - people say we're mum and daughter'

A self-proclaimed "teacher's pet" married her favourite schoolteacher - ignoring the jarring 25-year age difference between the two.

Monica Foster, 32, first met her now-wife Michelle, 57, in 2004 when she was her science teacher. Sixteen years later, the pair were reunited after Monica searched on Facebook to see how her former favourite teacher was doing.

Michelle had been in a relationship with a woman in the past, and Monica had just come out as gay too. The pair met up and became close friends before developing a romantic connection - despite being mistaken for mother and daughter "several times every day".

Ignoring daily online abuse from trolls, the couple got engaged in autumn 2022. They tied the knot earlier this year and say they're happier than ever after a "perfect day" with a private beachfront wedding. Michelle, now retired, from Big Rapids, Michigan, US, said: "When Monica first reached out, I was always willing to be supportive of former students, so I was very happy reconnect.

Monica and Michelle said they had to ignore taunts from internet trolls making fun of their relationship (Rachel Haner / SWNS)

"As we grew close, I was worried about the age gap and I was worried about how we first met, but I had to let it all go. Our wedding was a beach wedding on a stunning day - and it was just perfect. It's amazing how fast the year has flown by since our engagement - it's kind of bewildering. It's amazing and very surreal - after everything, we know we've got this."

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Monica, a school bus driver, said: "Our wedding day was so significant to me - I don't care what people think because they're not living my life, I am. It just felt so special." Michelle had been Monica's favourite teacher in seventh grade - when Monica, then 13, had been "the goody goody student".

Monica reconnected with Michelle via Facebook 17 years later (Rachel Haner / SWNS)

While their relationship remained professional back then, Michelle left such a mark that Monica decided to find her on Facebook 17 years later, in April 2020. Monica had just gone through a tough situation and recalled Michelle's supportive classroom being a "safe place" for her when she was younger and got in touch.

They began speaking online before eventually meeting again for the first time in 17 years in August 2021. Over lunch they chatted about their lives and over time they grew to be close friends.

The couple claims the massive age gap isn't an issue as they have plenty in common (Rachel Haner / SWNS)

Monica said: "We were both in really dark places at that time, and finding someone you can relate to and be vulnerable with felt safe." They ended their previous relationships to be together in May 2022, with Michelle and her wife filing for a divorce.

Ever since then, the couple - who both have children from previous marriages - have been living together. Monica said despite the 25-year age gap, they have a lot in common, having bonded over music, camping, outdoor activities and hunting down locally brewed beer.

Mataeo Smith