29 January 2024 , 12:18
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A woman has asked for advice after her fiancé demanded they put a specific clause into their pre-nuptial contract, specifying that if their sex life dwindled it could be grounds for divorce. Sharing the situation on social media, the woman wrote: “I honestly can't believe I'm asking this, but my boyfriend has gotten so mad that I'm feeling a little crazy now.”
Explaining that her boyfriend had been married before and it had ended badly with no intimacy, and he’s determined that it won’t happen again. She went on: “He had a terrible marriage before me that ended in a dead bedroom. Understood, I think that sucked for him to experience. So now he wants a prenup and literally write in the prenup that we will have sex x amount of times a week, or else I get absolutely nothing in the divorce.”
Stunned, the woman revealed they had already drawn up their pre-nup and they had both agreed to a 50/50 split of their marital assets should they break up, however, that’s no longer enough for him. “He wants me to ‘prove’ that I won't stop having sex with him in the future. I tell him I can't prove the future, and putting something in writing doesn't prove that,” she confessed.
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“Now he says I must have a guilty conscience if I won't sign these terms, because if I'm so certain it won't happen, then what's the problem? But to me, it makes me feel like a sex slave and not a loved wife or partner.”
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People reading the Reddit post were flabbergasted that this kind of situation was even on the table to be considered. One person pointed out: “Ask him what happens if one of you falls sick? If he pulls his back does he really want you jumping on him screaming ‘I can't afford to fail the prenup’...?”
Someone else asked: “And what if he develops erectile dysfunction? You lose out cos' of his limp d**k? Tell him you'll need exceptions in the prenup for all of these and more. Make it embarrassing and ridiculous till he realizes how insane this is.” Another person wrote: “Does he even have a lawyer? I would think any legal professional would tell him that such a stipulation is unprovable and in fact undermines the entire prenup.”