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Everyone has a particular kink that gets them going in the bedroom. Whether it’s sexy lingerie, feet, or something even spicier, it’s all fair game as long as it’s consensual. One fetish that is gaining more popularity in recent years thanks to the ongoing conversations about the ‘hot wife’ fantasy.
And now one ‘professional bull’ has revealed that he’s often approached by husbands asking him to bed their wives. John Legendary, an adult performer, says he feels that he needs to drop some straight truths about the long-misunderstood ‘hot wife’ lifestyle, including his freewheeling adventures as an in-demand ‘bull’ in other people’s bedrooms.
The former aerospace defense engineer-turned-rising adult film star says he’s often met with disbelief that other men would want him to sleep with their wives. He says: “It’s a common mindset from my vanilla (non-lifestyle) peers when I share with them that one of my kinks is having sex with wives, and the husbands are aware of it and are often present.”
“The husband is typically the liaison and facilitator in terms of coordinating a ‘play date’ - when you plan to meet with another party, swing couple, hotwife couple, unicorn, bull, etc. with the intent of sharing an intimate evening together. I find myself intrigued and turned on by the opportunity of meeting couples where the wife is being shared with me. I take this with great respect because I understand the level of strength and vulnerability that is required, especially from the husband.”
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John is a big fan of having sex with other people's wives (johnlegendary_/Instagram)Part of the problem, the LA-based entertainer believes, is that porn has fictionalised the role of the husband who shares his wife as an inferior specimen, which subsequently turns a lot of men off from exploring their sexuality and the hotwife dynamic in fear of being labeled as a ‘cuck’.
He continues: “This social construct, likely fueled by the dramatization of porn, fails to demystify the true essence of what the hotwife lifestyle really is. I look at the hotwife lifestyle as an adjacent or sometimes overlapping branch of the swing lifestyle, which is typically referred to as ‘couple swapping,’, whereas the hotwife lifestyle is referred to as ‘wife sharing’”.
Legendary says that two different types of couples lie within the hotwife lifestyle: “you have cuckolding and stag/vixen. Cuckolding is often mistakenly synonymous with hotwifing, but it is simply about the sexual power and decision-making residing with the wife, compared to that of the stag/vixen couple, where the sexual power dynamic and decision-making is shared equally with the husband and wife.
“Often, the general population assumes that sexual activities seen in pornographic films by cuck roles, including chastity, humiliation, degradation, clean-up, orgasm denial, etc. are solely designated for cucks. In reality, the acts themselves are not what defines whether a man is a cuck, but rather who maintains the sexual power dynamic.
“It's all a spectrum, and stags and cucks can enjoy as much or as little of the various [cuck] sexual acts without them having to define their role within the hotwife dynamic,” adds Legendary. “Frankly, this labeling or need to fit in a box only permeates the stigma of hypermasculinity.”